My FAVE-FIVE Movie Couples

~written by Cendi Micor

Anyone who knows me, knows that I am a total movie-geek! I am absolutely content as long as I have my movie collection nearby. My next in theatre movie, is going to be Sex and the City 2, so in honour of the many movie couples we've grown to love, here's a list of my Top 5, in random order:

CARRIE BRADSHAW & JOHN PRESTON "BIG" (Sex and the City): The pair is quite the dramatic duo. They are the couple we all love to hate because they are constantly "on-and-off", they are breaking-up then making-up. In spite of it all, they always find a way back to each other. Let's face it...not even Aidan could compare because after all they have been through, her columns would not have been as successful as they were without the infamous Mr. Big. As much as they both feared the idea of marriage, they needed each other to finally settle down.



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HOLLY KENNEDY & GERRY (P.S. I Love You...): This couple really went deeper with the term, " 'til death do us part". Rather than allow his death stop her life, Gerry enables her to move on with his blessing. We all know that when a loved one passes, we try to live life as they want us to, but it is much easier said then done. In this movie, he wrote her letters and encouraged her to date, travel, etc. Her happiness was his absolute goal and he wanted nothing more than her life to continue. True love is evident as he put his own happiness aside for hers but putting an incredible amount of time into his letters.


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KATE REYNOLDS & JACK CAMPBELL (The Family Man): Married with two children- this couple is extremely realistic and practical in the sense that most of us can relate to Kate and Jack's situation. The movie explores what "could have been" in terms of career, goals and dreams. It focuses on what Jack lost by settling down with a family but the lesson at the end, shows true meaning of "no regrets" by enforcing the idea of appreciating what you have now. The infamous line, "I choose us", reiterates the life long commitment of really putting your family first.


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ROSE DEWITT BUKATER & JACK DAWSON (Titanic): Rose and Jack could be viewed as a modern-day Romeo and Juliet by the simple fact that they were on opposite ends of society's social spectrum. She was from a wealthy background and he, from a less fortunate one. Many tried desperately to keep them apart but that just pushed them closer together. What they did have in common was that they were both very misunderstood but they found meaning in each other. When the ship was sinking, he let her go and she came back to him. They respected each other's ambitions and found freedom by exploring together.


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ALLIE HAMILTON & NOAH CALHOUN (The Notebook): As a young couple with very different backgrounds, they were forbidden to be together. As they were forced to separate by Allie moving away for school, fate led them back to each other and they would not let anything, nor anyone, stand in their way. Not even dementia....as Noah devoted his later years to keeping Allie company and living at her nursing home. He did this in hopes of flourishing her memory. The movie was a great example of how your spouse becomes your life and shows immense sacrifice.


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I'm normally not one for chick-flicks but every once in a while it's great to be reminded that a lifelong partnership is a true commitment that should not be taken lightly. With the news of many I know who are separating and divorcing, it really opens my eyes to what I am blessed with. If you have been lucky enough to find that special someone, know that you do have to work at it, and it won't be simple all the time.

"So it's not gonna be easy. It's gonna be really hard. We're gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you, forever, you and me, every day." ~Noah (Ryan Gosling-The Notebook)

Who are your favourite movie couples? Feel free to comment...I'd love to hear from you

14 Things to Keep Your Heart Smiling

~written by Cendi Micor

Greetings all! This is my very first blog post and I figured I would get into exactly why we named our company "Immortal Weddings". My hubby actually came up with it and once he suggested it, it fit perfectly with our style.

When hearing "immortal" we wanted people to think words like forever, undying, infinity, eternal, always, never-ending, etc. Why? Because although your wedding is one of the most important days of your life, once it's done, there is still a marriage to keep up. This is a partnership that goes beyond your "big day".

So, in honour of those of you who celebrate Valentine's Day, here are 14 tips that have helped us along our 4.5 year marriage so far...

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1. Value the simple things

As much as we all love to be showered by gifts, it's the simple everyday things that we do that matter most. How great is it to wake up every morning and have your lunch ready for you? When it's snowing out, it is so wonderful to have your partner clean off and warm up your vehicle so you don't have to worry about it. I knew my hubby was the one when I got home one day to find a single rose with a card attached to it, laying on my desk. I was about to start a co-op position and apparently he called my sister to let him sneak into my room so he could leave some words of encouragement. That moment was priceless! So no matter what, appreciate simple things that constantly remind you that you are on your partner's mind.

2. Be careful what you say when you're angry

Yes, we ALL fight with our partners but how do you fight? Whether or not you have a temper, there are times when we all say things we do not mean. If you need to, walk away from the situation until you calm down. Watch what you say and how you say it because you can't take back hurtful words once you say it.

3. Don't go to sleep angry

This is a TOUGH one. Because let's face it, at the end of the day, if you are fighting about something, especially if you are both hard-headed, you won't always see eye-to-eye by the time you are ready for bed. But you know what? That's okay! You can't always agree on everything. However, with that being said, you should be mature about the matter and make sure that you are civil when you lay down together. Say "goodnight", even if you don't mean it at the time. Is it really worth having one of you sleep on the couch? Will your problem be solved by the morning?

4. Keep dating and go on vacation

At least once a month, especially if you are parents, go out and enjoy each other's company. Whether it's during the day or in the evening, take time to do things you used to when you were dating. It does not have to be extravagant. Also, make the effort to put money aside to vacation together. Whether or not you bring kids, just enjoy time away from reality. Shop, eat-out and have no worries. Not everything has to be routine just because you are married; does not have to be boring.


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5. Talk and laugh

As much as you do get to a point where things are routine, take time to actually talk to each other. Obviously, you are not chatting on the phone for hours or chatting on MSN anymore, but talk about each other's days at dinner time. Turn the t.v. off and talk or play cards. Reminisce and laugh about memories. Remember just what it is about the other person that made you fall for them in the first place.

6. Money comes and goes

As a couple, finances are a touchy subject and it takes a while to get used to the idea that "what's yours is mine and what's mine is yours". At the end of the day, although you should consult each other, you really should keep your own accounts and have independence. No amount of money is worth fighting over...work on your issues together and you will find a way regardless.

7. You need "me" time

As much as you are a couple, you need to maintain your independence as well. Don't lose a sense of who you are. So, go out and have a girls night or enjoy a poker night with your boys. While your partner is out, unless there is an emergency, there is no need to call and check-in. Give each other the chance to miss each other; you don't have to do everything together. If you live together, enjoy the freedom of hanging out in separate rooms. Do your nails and pluck your eyebrows or play hours of PlayStation without interruptions!!

8. Let the little things slide

You don't always do things the same way. For example, the way you fold clothes may be different from your partner's way. Is it worth arguing about? Be lucky that your laundry is done. In other words, choose your battles wisely. Your relationship can't be perfect so don't nag about every little trivial thing. It's not worth your frustration.

9. Little words mean a lot

Now that you are used to each other's ways and completely comfortable, you should still make the effort to say "please", "thank you", "I love you", and "you're welcome". I bet talking to each other so much, you don't realize how infrequently you use these words. Also take time to compliment each other. It's nice to hear and can make a horrible day suddenly wonderful.

10. Intimacy

Yes, it may be difficult to keep the fire as intense as it was when you were dating but you need to stay intimate. Especially if you have kids, make time for each other. Also means being affectionate...hug, kiss, hold hands. You don't have to be "lovey-dovey" and constantly act like newlyweds or hormone-driven adolescents, but a physical connection is just as important as an emotional connection.

11. Support each other's ambitions

Even if you are not enthusiastic about your partner's career goals, be his/her cheerleader. Try to share their passion and respect their drive. For example, if your partner is starting a new business, give them an evening, without interruptions, and allow them to "do their thing". It shows just how much you want them to succeed.

12. Share responsibilities

It's now 2010 so there should no longer be the idea of " a woman's place is in the kitchen". Yes, I know this is an old-fashioned concept that exists but there is nothing wrong with a man cooking, especially if he loves it. Women can shovel, they can take out garbage. The chores should be shared as much as possible be you are both hard-working and both need a break once in a while.

13. Respect each other's family and friends

Luckily, I have in-laws that I get along with but we all know that many people are not that fortunate. Whether or not you get along with your in-laws, respect your partner and watch what you say. If you have nothing nice to say, seriously, don't say nothing at all. You don't have to keep your mouth shut about your opinions but say it nicely. Also, if your partner has friends you don't get along with (again, luckily I do not have issues with my hubby's friends) be respectful. He/she is friends with them for a reason so trust his/her judgement. I mean, you were chosen as a spouse, right?

14. Surprises!

No matter how big or small, take the time to surprise each other. Whether it's with concert tickets, flowers for no reason or even cooking his/her favourite meal, spontaneity is important.


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Well, I'm surely not an expert or marriage counsellor but these things have worked for me so far. Marriage does take a lot of work and effort but hope some of these tips can help put things into perspective.

Take care!